The Importance of being Paul, John, or Harry

I recently had a conversation with some friends about men. What we found attractive and what we didn’t. We are all over 30 and know that there is more to a good man than looks… lol.

We talked about what there MUST be and humor was high on my list. The rest of life just goes easier if you can laugh about things. He MUST be able to laugh at himself. Seriousness definitely has its place, no one wants to joke ALL the time. There are going to be situations were it is laugh or cry… I prefer to laugh.

There were other traits of course… a big heart, forgiving nature, affectionate, honesty, loyalty, the list goes on and on. . All of the things that we brought up are wonderful things for a man to have. Some are viewed as essential and some are icing on the cake.

Then the topic turned to what we find sexy in a man… and we all decided that a man would be at his sexiest after he bathed the kids, vacuumed the floor, cooked dinner and washed the dishes! Any man doing that is going to get lucky! ROFL

Will guys ever get that the flowers are nice but what really turns us on is not having to ask them to take out the trash, or them taking our car to get the oil changed? Will they ever understand that a man is sexiest holding a baby or playing with a puppy. They are most sexy being gentle.

Here is to men everywhere what a great invention God had!